DUA FOR MARRIAGE

 

Who is Righteous Spouse in Islam?

A person who exemplifies moral and spiritual traits in line with Islamic standards is considered a virtuous spouse in Islam. Although personal traits may differ, a righteous husband often has the following attributes:

1.    Faith and Piety (Taqwa):

An individual who aspires to uphold Islamic teachings and have a deep faith in Allah (God) is considered a righteous spouse. They are conscious of their commitments and responsibilities before Allah.

2.    Good Character (Akhlaq): 
A moral spouse is polite, compassionate, and shows good manners. In their relationships with friends, family, and the community, they maintain moral principles and treat people with dignity.

3.    Tawaddhu: 
One of the most important characteristics of a moral husband is humility. Instead of being haughty or boastful, they behave and engage with people in a humble manner.

4.    Generosity and Selflessness: 
A virtuous spouse is giving and unselfish, taking into account their partner's wants and welfare. They put their spouse's pleasure ahead of their own needs and are prepared to make sacrifices for the benefit of the family.

5.    Good Communication Skills: 
In a marriage, honest and respectful communication is essential, and a virtuous partner aims to achieve this. They listen intently and communicate in a way that fosters harmony and understanding.

6.    Forgiveness: 
A virtuous couple is understanding and forgiving. Instead of clinging to grudges, they are prepared to overlook transgressions and flaws.

7.    Supportive of Islamic Values: 
A good spouse helps and promotes the family's adoption of Islamic customs and values. They play a part in fostering an atmosphere that upholds and transmits Islamic values to coming generations.

8.    Seeking Knowledge: 
A righteous spouse is dedicated to lifelong study and actively pursues knowledge of Islam. They make a concerted effort to deepen their comprehension of the religion's teachings.

Duas/ Supplications

Duas (supplications) play an important role in Islamic traditions, and many people turn to them for blessings and guidance in various aspects of life, including marriage. Here are a few duas for a happy and blessed marriage:

Dua for a Righteous Spouse:

"Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wathurriyyatina qurrata a'yunin waj'alna lilmuttaqeena imama"

Translation: "Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous."

Rabbana Hablana min Azwajina Full Dua In Arabic
Here is how to write rabbana Hablana in Arabic text.
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا

Meaning of Rabbana Hablana

• Everybody wants to have happy children and a successful marriage. A decent spouse raises their children with manners, fulfills their desires, and helps them reach Jannah.

• The majority of us genuinely hope for the blessing of a decent and happy family. Is it not the case that we all want our families to be like this?

• A lot of people complain about their erratic and turbulent relationships with their partners or kids.

• it might be very challenging to raise well-mannered and pious children in today's world as children's social group and living situation are different from old times,

• Since happy tears are seen to be cool, the idiom "قرّة أعين" (joy and happiness) is derived from the word "قرر," which means coolness. "أقرّ اللَّه عينك" literally translates to "may Allah grant you what pleases your heart."

• This is the second invocation made by those who worship the Most Merciful, who combines good acts with virtues. That say - that is, "Grant us wives and virtuous children who follow You, so that we may have happiness in this life and the next."

• The present tense verb "يقولون," which implies that Allah will provide them submissive children and descendants who worship Him alone, expresses how sincerely they seek this prayer.

• As the Prophet, peace be upon him, stated, "The benefit returns to them and endures in this world and the Hereafter," therefore they are pleading not just for their spouses and children but also for themselves.

• A man's deeds cease when he passes away, but three things continue: perpetual almsgiving, knowledge (that benefits others), or a devout son who offers prayers in his honor (for the departed).

• As Allah states, they will be reunited in the Hereafter with their pious families in the gardens of happiness.

• We shall raise the descendants of those who believe to their level and never undervalue the reward for their acts. These individuals are those whose descendants follow them in faith. Everyone will only receive what they have sown. This is an organic and profound manifestation of faith, expressing the deep-seated yearning to see more people follow the path to Allah.

• The prayer for imam among the virtuous is an appeal for the greatest degrees of submission to Allah, necessitating assurance and perseverance.

• It represents a search for direction, prosperity, and the advantages of wise counsel and good deeds that propel them to higher places.

• The story about the several levels of paradise being visible from one another highlights the superiority and high standing of the occupants of these rooms.

• The Prophet, peace be upon him, made it clear that everyone who believes in Allah and accepts the messengers can also achieve these. They are not only available to the prophets.

• To sum up, the significance of this prayer is found in thanking those who offer it, in the constancy of their appeal, in the recognition of Allah's great bounty, and in the focus on begging forgiveness for one's spouse and children. This prayer emphasizes how important it is to sincerely want to pray and seek Allah for the highest goals.

• It emphasizes how effective prayer is at achieving goals by showcasing Allah's generosity, might, hearing, knowledge, and love.

Benefit of the Rabbana Hablana Dua:

1. The present tense verb "they say" indicates that the purpose of this supplication is to praise Allah, exalt those who make it, and demonstrate their perseverance in repeating it periodically.

2. Seek Allah's intercession through His gift, which is undoubtedly one of the greatest bounties from the Most High.

3. One of the most crucial things a supplicant should do is ask Allah, the Blessed and Exalted, for blessings for the reformation of their spouse and children.

4. The one making the request should intensify his desire for prayer, pleading with Allah, the Most High, for the greatest honors and demands, such as asking Him to create them leaders of the righteous: "And make us leaders for the righteous."

5. This clarifies the importance of prayer, highlighting it as one of the most effective ways to achieve desired outcomes. It represents the majesty of Allah's kindness as well as the excellence of His hearing, might, and wisdom. It also shows how much Allah loves the one making the request.

Let's analyze its importance and meaning using a listicle format:

1. Opening Address to the Almighty: The dua starts with the phrase "Our Lord," recognizing Allah as the One to whom the request is addressed.

2. Beseech Allah for Blessings: The phrase "Grant us" conveys a sincere plea for Allah's benevolence and favor. It displays the acknowledgement of the believer's reliance on the Creator.

3. Wish for Family Blessings: The phrase "From among our wives and offspring" highlights how broad the request is, referring to both family and marriage ties.

4. Comfort to Our Eyes: The phrase "comfort to our eyes" refers to the happiness, contentment, and serenity that come from family. It suggests a desire for a happy and contented family life.

When Is Rabbana Hablana to Be Read?

The Sunnah states that diverse situations call for the acceptance of dua. Increase your dua in these circumstances and moments.

• Following the fard (mandatory prayers),

• When you're ill or when you ask the ill to offer you a dua

• For your missing sibling

• From Adhan to Iqamah

• When initiating and breaking a fast

• When consuming zamzam water

• When under duress in the latter third of the evening

• During the latter part of Jumu'ah's day

• When precipitation occurs

• While in Sajdah

• When traveling

• Arafah Day

• When a parent offers a child a dua.

How To Perform Rabbana Hablana Dua?

1. Begin with Purity:

Ensure that you are in a state of ritual purity by performing ablution (wudu) if needed.

2. Choose a Quiet Time:

Find a quiet and peaceful time where you can focus on your supplication without distractions.

3. Face the Qibla:

While not obligatory, facing the direction of the Kaaba in Mecca (Qibla) is recommended when making supplications.

4. Raise Your Hands:

Raise your hands to shoulder level or slightly higher, with your palms facing upwards.

5. Start with Praise:

Begin by praising and glorifying Allah. You can say "Bismillah" (In the name of Allah) or start with phrases like "SubhanAllah" (Glory be to Allah) and "Alhamdulillah" (All praise is due to Allah).

6. Recite the Dua:

Recite the dua "Rabbana hablana min azwajina wathurriyyatina qurrata a'yunin waj'alna lilmuttaqeena imama" with sincerity and humility.

7. Personalize the Dua:

After reciting the standard wording, you can also add your personal requests and desires for a happy and righteous family.

8. Ask for Other Blessings:

Take the opportunity to ask for other blessings for your family, such as health, guidance, and protection.

9. Conclude with Salutations:

Conclude your supplication by sending blessings upon Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) with the words "Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam."

10. Amen (Ameen):

Conclude your dua by saying "Amen" or "Ameen," expressing your hope and belief in the acceptance of your supplication.
Remember that sincerity, humility, and belief in the acceptance of your dua are crucial elements. It's also recommended to make this dua regularly, seeking Allah's blessings for your family's well-being and righteousness.